Futuro do amor passado

Cléo e eu somos fãs desta música porque é a D.R. (Discussão de Relação) mais bem feita da história da humanidade. Também é porque concordamos que quando terminamos um relacionamento, a outra pessoa se torna apenas alguém que a gente conheceu e nada mais!
Andei pensando no meu relacionamento mais duradouro: como é possível ficar mais de uma décda com alguém e posteriormente reconstruir a vida sem aquela presença outrora constante; com o medo do possível desconforto de encontrar o ex com sua companhia atual? ; e, sim, eu tenho uma bruta dor-de-cotovelo por saber que ele reconstruiu a vida amorosa e a minha não foi a lugar algum. Pior que isso é a coincidência que coloca no mesmo ambiente a nossa atual companhia e o ex. Sempre dá espaço para comparações, receios e umas sensações esquisitas - e estes sintomas demoram muito a passar em minha vida. Às vezes a relação acabou há meses, mas dar de cara com o ex é um troço esquisito. Porém, quando passa, realmente a gente não vê sequer sentido no passado. Para a minha sorte, até que superei bem certas transições e dos meus ex, boa parte se torna se tornou amigo.
Disse a mim o meu amigo Ósman:"A vida tem muitos amores". Depois a gente vê que tem - isso claro, para as mulheres que não vão às festas preocurar marido, não é? desespero espanta.

Somebody That I Used To Know (feat. Kimbra)
Gotye

Now and then I think of when we were together
Like when you said you felt so happy you could die
Told myself that you were right for me
But felt so lonely in your company
But that was love and it's an ache I still remember

You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness
Like resignation to the end, always the end
So, when we found that we could not make sense
Well, you said that we would still be friends
But I'll admit that I was glad that it was over

But you didn't have to cut me off
Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough
No, you didn't have to stoop so low
Have your friends collect your records and then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now you're just somebody that I used to know

Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
But had me believing it was always something that I'd done
But I don't wanna live that way, reading into every word you say
You said that you could let it go
And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know

But you didn't have to cut me off
Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough
No, you didn't have to stoop so low
Have your friends collect your records and then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know

Somebody, I used to know
Somebody, now you're just somebody that I used to know
Somebody, I used to know
Somebody, now you're just somebody that I used to know

I used to know
That I used to know
I used to know
Somebody